Gay Bathhouse Etiquette Bathhouse Etiquette. Bathhouses, first and foremost, are a place for men to have sex. It is a sexual playground for men to do whatever they want. A place to get sex 24/7, like a 24-hour convenience store. Come to think of it, the Baths are like a supermarket. You can shop for…
Bathhouse Drunks Most guys go to the baths to get laid or to socialize. Many go to make that connection, I had written about previously. There are a segment of guys who go to the baths because they are the loneliest people on the planet. These are truly lost souls. And believe me there are…
Body Vs Race But many GAM still refuse to accept their low standing in the gay community. They are convinced if they buff up, white guys will accept them. So you have GAM working their bodies hard and eating almost nothing to achieve the perfection that is seen in the gay white community. You see…
Sex With Clothes On While many gay men are fascinated by the concept of the baths, there are just as many men that are wary. For gay men who are unsure about what lies on the other side, it can be very intimidating. So the most common question I am asked: Is it is possible…
Drug Use @ The Baths: Part 1 The following is a true story. The customer in Room 316 was on overtime. REAL OVERTIME. He checked in at 8 PM the previous night, and now it was approaching Noon, just in time for the lunch special. He purchased a room for 12 hours, which was not…
Drug Use @ The Baths: Part 2 The thing that constantly blows my mind is how so many gay men take drugs on a day-to-day basis. It is almost apart of their lives as so many of these men are able to function, hold down a job and maintain relationships with other people. All the…
My Tenth Anniversary It just occurred to me that this month (August 2001) I would be celebrating ten years of going to the baths - my tenth anniversary. Wow, I cannot believe it. The past ten years have really flown by. I realized at age 31, I have spent one third of my life at…