It has dawned on me that there is an entirely different reason (other than the sex) as to why so many gay men go to the baths. What is it? It is the need for gay men to connect with…
Making The Connection
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Being Homeless
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The weather has been absolutely crazy. For those who say that global warming is a myth, are clearly in major denial. The past couple of days have been below –10. We have gone from one extreme (hot drought in the…
Looking To Get Laid
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The number one reason guys went to the baths was to have sex. As the decades have passed that concept hasn’t changed. What has changed is the intensity and drive some guys have to either fuck or get fucked. It…
Sex Standing Up
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If you want to be a regular patron at the baths, there is one sexual activity you need to master to be a pro. No I’m not talking about being a good top or an expert cocksucker. You really need…
The 24 Hour Day
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People keep asking me when the best time is to go to the baths. The problem is that there is no real clear-cut answer; there are different times when different things happen, with different crowds. So here I take you…
Barefoot Essentials
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Let’s face it; at the baths you don’t need much to make an impression. It is just you and your towel, the bare essentials. However there is an old saying that says clothes make the man. With only wearing a…
Bathhouse Drunks
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Most guys go to the baths to get laid or to socialize. Many go to make that connection, I had written about previously. There are a segment of guys who go to the baths because they are the loneliest people…
Body Vs Race
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Why is it that the gay community considers bone thin young Gay White Men (GWM) 'Abercrombie and Fitch'. While at the same time young Gay Asian Men (GAM), with the exact body type, undesirable and worthless? In America gay men…
Sex With Clothes On
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While many gay men are fascinated by the concept of the baths, there are just as many men that are wary. For gay men who are unsure about what lies on the other side, it can be very intimidating. So…
Drug Use @ The Baths: Part 2
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The thing that constantly blows my mind is how so many gay men take drugs on a day-to-day basis. It is almost apart of their lives as so many of these men are able to function, hold down a job…
