Open Relationships
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Now not all couples will want to be separated from each other. It is not uncommon to see a committed couple sprawled on a bed, watching guys pass by their room. The couple lies there in hopes of attracting someone both men like for a "threesome". Or they will prowl the baths together, in the hopes of finding someone to be a "third". In a lot of couple's minds, a threesome is not adultery. If both parties are together, engaging and experimenting with the same person, at the same time, then for some reason it does not feel like cheating. Both parties in question know what the other person is doing at all times. As well, it is in a controlled environment, monitored by each other. Many times in a threesome, one of the parties will sit back and watch his partner get in on with someone else. That is just as much a turn-on as having sex.
So for some couples, a threesome is the only amount of openness in their relationship. However, with one particular couple I see at the baths, the ground rules are somewhat stretched. This couple goes to the baths together, primarily looking for a third party. Sometimes one of the parties sees a cute guy, but the other party is not interested. So solo activity is allowed. A friend I know at the baths had encountered this couple. The friend in question prefers one-on-one action, not really into threesomes. He likes to be totally intimate and giving to one person at a time. But he found both guys hot and was in a real dilemma. The solution He slept with both of them separately! He spent an hour with one guy, took a half hour break, afterward hooked up with his partner for another hour!
Other couples looking for a third party take a different approach. They will actually have sex openly in the shower, porn room, or even the sauna area. When a couple engages in sex so openly, they hope to attract other guys to join in for a threesome. The other day I saw a couple arrived at the baths together. Once undressed they immediately started to engage in oral sex right in the porn room. They just walked in and started to do it. One guy was on his knees, while the other guy was sitting down, enjoying the moment. Soon other men joined in, and the twosome quickly turned into a fivesome! But the fun did not end there. Once this couple finished, they picked themselves up and went searching the bathhouse for more threesomes. By the end of their stay at the baths they managed to have group sex in the steam room, sauna, whirlpool, orgy room, and even the TV lounge room. At one point they had even had sex in their room, with the door wide open and the lights on for everyone to see. It was their hope that some hot guy would join them in their room. You really have to be a pure exhibitionist, not to mind other men watching you have sex so openly. But be warned, not all couples will accept just anyone to join their party. You can try, but if you get pushed away, back off. They are not interested in you. You would be wasting your time following them around the bathhouse hoping to continue this interlude. If you get rejected for a group encounter, just accept it gracefully and move on to search for someone else. You will make yourself look desperate, by following a couple around that has no interest in you.
Just recently, this same couple I just wrote about, took things to the ultimate level. Now the bathhouse that I go to has everything you can possibly imagine, including a sling room (think leather and S&M). This couple rented time in the sling room, and invited their respective "F" buddies along for a hot foursome. There was Crisco, there was water and juice, there was cocaine, and there were even c--k rings for maximum longevity (I peaked in the doorway for a split second). There were sweating bodies, and moaning and groaning. When it was all over, the two F**K buddies left, and the couple went into the whirlpool, and held each other the longest time. It was actually touching to see (them in the whirlpool).
But not all men are open to an open relationship. When I related this last story to one of my friends at the baths, he was appalled (he is currently single). In that situation, he would be absolutely devastated to see his partner make out with someone else. It is adultery, plain and simple. But I cannot tell you how many people I have met, and even slept with that were in relationships. In a lot of gay men's minds, sex and love are two separate things. For heavens sake, I have even run into my psychoanalysis at the baths, and he is a gay man in a ten-year relationship! We just had a short hello, and went our own separate ways. When I saw him in his office, I did not bring it up. I just felt it was none of my business. At least I do not have to wonder what he looks like with no clothes on. Now I know.
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