Tag: Gay Asian Men

Making The Connection

It has dawned on me that there is an entirely different reason (other than the sex) as to why so many gay men go to the baths. What is it? It is the need for gay men to connect with…

Bathhouse Drunks

Most guys go to the baths to get laid or to socialize. Many go to make that connection, I had written about previously. There are a segment of guys who go to the baths because they are the loneliest people…

Body Vs Race

But many GAM still refuse to accept their low standing in the gay community. They are convinced if they buff up, white guys will accept them. So you have GAM working their bodies hard and eating almost nothing to achieve…

My Tenth Anniversary

It just occurred to me that this month (August 2001) I would be celebrating ten years of going to the baths - my tenth anniversary. Wow, I cannot believe it. The past ten years have really flown by. I realized…

Real Men Cuddle

Recently I spent some time at the baths with my old friend "Jake", (read Been There-Done That) There was the usual kissing, sucking, rimming, and oral. After Jake ejaculated he wiped himself off, got up, lit up a cigarette and…

Prime Timers

It does not matter what time of day or night it is. It does not matter what the weather is like outside. And it does not matter if there are a hundred guys or just a handful of guys at…

Tricks of the Trade

The minute I saw him I knew his motives. He had blond hair, blue eyes, and a gorgeous physique. I would peg him to be in his mid-twenties. He was not completely naked like the rest of us cruising the…