Tag: Gay Baths

Making The Connection

It has dawned on me that there is an entirely different reason (other than the sex) as to why so many gay men go to the baths. What is it? It is the need for gay men to connect with…

Body Vs Race

But many GAM still refuse to accept their low standing in the gay community. They are convinced if they buff up, white guys will accept them. So you have GAM working their bodies hard and eating almost nothing to achieve…

Sex With Clothes On

While many gay men are fascinated by the concept of the baths, there are just as many men that are wary. For gay men who are unsure about what lies on the other side, it can be very intimidating. So…

Drug Use @ The Baths: Part 2

The thing that constantly blows my mind is how so many gay men take drugs on a day-to-day basis. It is almost apart of their lives as so many of these men are able to function, hold down a job…

Drug Use @ The Baths: Part 1

The following is a true story. The customer in Room 316 was on overtime. REAL OVERTIME. He checked in at 8 PM the previous night, and now it was approaching Noon, just in time for the lunch special. He purchased…

Eye Contact

You walk down the street and catch some guy's eyes. You do not stop to continue the gaze with a nod and a friendly smile; you just continue to walk. Shopping in the supermarket, your eyes meet with another guys…

My Tenth Anniversary

It just occurred to me that this month (August 2001) I would be celebrating ten years of going to the baths - my tenth anniversary. Wow, I cannot believe it. The past ten years have really flown by. I realized…