Tag: Gay Men

Making The Connection

It has dawned on me that there is an entirely different reason (other than the sex) as to why so many gay men go to the baths. What is it? It is the need for gay men to connect with…

Gay Porn

The one thing that is constant in most bathhouses across North America (other than all of the available sex) is the fact that each bathhouse has a room designated for the viewing of gay porn during the lull moments at…

The Foot Fetish

The phrase, "You Cannot Judge a Book by its Cover" really applies to this story. As I have mentioned in previous essays, bathhouses are a sexual playground for men to do what they want. Anything goes and nothing is taboo.…

Been There Done That

Been There Done That. Going to a bathhouse as many times as I do, you wind up meeting and seeing some of the same people over and over again. With some people, you can be somewhat friendly. Other people you…

Christmas @ The Baths

One of the most unique aspects of a bathhouse, are the hours. You can really go at any time, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The baths are even open during the holidays. As a veteran of the…

Open Relationships

Open Relationships. There comes a point in any long-term gay relationship that a change is needed. While a couple can love each other, and cannot imagine a life without each other, the sex can get stale. In short, couple's need…

Racism Or Preference?

The first two entries were to lay down the foundation for my stories. Right now I want to tell you a little bit about myself. Even though I am in my thirties, I still look a decade younger. Anytime I…