Body Vs Race
But many GAM still refuse to accept their low standing in the gay community. They are convinced if they buff up, white guys will accept them. So you have GAM working their bodies hard and eating almost nothing to achieve the perfection that is seen in the gay white community. You see so many GAM at the gym religiously, hoping to emulate the white boy body, thus being accepted. But even after a GAM achieves a perfect body, we still do not get any respect from GWM. It really blows my mind when I continually see white guys at the baths who are overweight, average looking, even with major acne problems ignoring good-looking, toned GAM, simply because they are a different race. At the baths, these mediocre overweight gay men will chase after other white guys, who are out of their league, rather than a good-looking Asian. Or they will hook up with each other, simply because they are the same race. All the while there are these muscular GAM at the baths, standing around and not even getting noticed! So what I am concluding is that GWM are not body obsessed, but rather race obsessed. I know of one very muscular Asian guy (Tim from GWM & GAM Speak Out!) that tells me:
“In that sense, I think it doesn’t hurt that I have a nicer-than-average body, in terms of “them” liking me. But, it is my feeling that many young non-rice-queen White gays are so preoccupied with the category, Asian, and with the idea of “Asian men = small (penis) = not sexy = undesirable = undoable = don’t want to be seen with Asian guys,” that how I look as an Asian individual makes no difference. Since they can’t see beyond the category, being buff is not even noticeable to these people.”
(To view Tim’s body, which he says is rejected by mediocre (his words) white guys on a regular basis, click here)
GAM who do not work out are separated into two body types: Bone-thin or pleasantly plump. However, there are also many GWM who fall into the exact same body type. And these GWM do not have any problems finding companionship at the baths, while GAM with the same body type are completely ignored. For instance I see a lot of bone-thin anorexic looking white guys at the baths and they do not seem to have any problems finding sex at the baths. These guys are considered Abercrombie & Fitch types. While many GAM with the exact same body type, are not even considered on the same wavelength. A toned, muscular GAM will face more discrimination in the gay community than an overweight GWM would. In fact, I see very little difference between the gym and the baths, in terms of the politics and culture between gay men. If wanted to know how it feels like at the baths, without actually going, just go to your nearest gym. It is exactly the same. All of the GWM stick together, talk together, and work out together. None of the GWM even bothers with, speaks to, or even looks at any GAM. These GWM are even friendlier to white men over sixty than a GAM in their own age bracket!
This is what I am concluding. If a gay man desperately wants to get off at the baths (Read When Desperation Sinks In) and has to choose between a perfect body and a guy ethnic background, race will win out every time. The proof of this is the bathhouse for Rice Queens. I see so many good-looking, toned, muscular Asian men all standing around waiting for someone to notice them. While at the same time many of the white patrons (regardless of age or body type) are getting laid by record numbers. And again, just scroll up to look at Tim body, which he says is ignored by many mediocre GWM. In fact once when I was at the baths, I overheard this guy say, “Why are all the Asians here? Why do not they go to the (bathhouse for Rice Queens)?” Think that was an isolated incident? I do not have to remind you of the story I told in Rice Queens (being passed over for a retarded person).
You may be thinking, okay maybe I am targeting guys that just have certain fetishes. Try this story on for size. Once I saw a guy in his thirties who was the average looking gay yuppie. He was walking around ignoring every GAM who had a similar or better body than him. Then this young overweight guy showed up. The two promptly went to a room where they f**cked each other. I could overhear the moans and the groans and the proclamation that one of them had such a fine ass. You may be thinking, okay the gay yuppie is a chubby chaser. And I could accept that, because you do not choose whom you are attracted to. But two hours later he was hitting on a bony, rail thin forty-year old. What did all these men have in common? You guessed it they were all white. And that is not an isolated incident.
Orgies and private sex parties have always fascinated me.. For years I’ve tried to get invited to one. I registered on a gay hook-up site that features such parties. But I was denied an invitation to every single party I requested an invite for. Sometimes I would notice a party that hardly had any participants signed up. I would sign up a few days before, and still get rejected. One guy only had three guys signed up for his party, and I still got rejected for an invite. On his profile he said he was interested in African-American/Black, Hispanic, Multi-Racial, Other and White. He too, didn’t check off the box that said ‘Asian’
Finally, I slipped through the cracks and got an invite (my first and only one). I was nervous, but I went because I always wanted to go to one. This party was billed ‘Real Sex for Real Men’. The operative being that it doesn’t matter what you look like everyone is welcome. Well the party turned out to be a disappointment. Oh there were average guys there, but nobody wanted to be with me, as the only Asian. Men of all shapes and sizes stayed away from me like I had the plague. At one point during a break, all of the guys were standing there wondering whom to do next, and I was the only one who didn’t get touched. It was like I was invisible. Worse, some guys seemed nervous and avoided eye contact with me. It was like they were worried that they might have to do something with me. Just to be polite.
I was just regulated to tit sucking, if I was lucky enough that the guy didn’t push me away. I tried to participate, but was turned away by almost every guy. And other guys in worse shape than me, got tons action. I mentioned earlier that South Asian men have Caucasian features, and thus are considered Caucasian in the gay community. There were three South Asian guys at the party, and they had no problems giving and receiving. In fact I felt that one South Asian guy was in worse shape/looks than me. But he had no problems getting action, including kissing many guys. When I tried to kiss the same guys (in between the tit sucking) the guys would turn their face, so I was kissing their cheek.
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